Heavenly Jewels

protection as long as one stitch remains on that persons body. (Tirmizi) 37 . These four things are the means ofgoodness in this world as well as the hereafter. 1 .Agrateful heart 2. A tongue that remembersAllah 3. Abody that demonstrates patience in problems. 4. Awife that does not seek sin by herselfand the wealth ofher husband (Tibraani) 38 . When a person whose charachter and Deen is l iked, sends a proposal of marriage then make Nikah. If it is not made then there will be great Fitna and Fasaad on this earth. (Tirmizi) 39 . The fragrance ofJanat is Haraam on a woman who asks her husband to give her Talaaq without a reason. (ImaamAhmed) 40. They are not from us who (at the time ofa persons demise or any misfortune) slap their faces, tear their clothes or shout out the cries of ignorance (Laments andwails) (Bukhari) BRINGING UP AND EDUCATING CHILDREN The purpose ofmarriage is not to only l ive ones life as husband and wife ,fulfilling ones desires but the institute of marriage is a cultural obligation fromwhich the safeguarding ofmankind's l ineage is sought. This can only be possible when the woman plays an effective role in the upbringing and education of their children. It is for this reaso' : that the Holy Quraan has used the word Hars (farm) for women. Just as how crops are grown successfu l l y in them so too are cultured and productive members of society created in the care ofwomen. Therefore parents are advised to specially take care towards the upbringing oftheir children so that they become positive individuals ofhumanity. Explaining how to bring up children with good manners, Imaanr 93