Heavenly Jewels

4. The place should not be specified and if it is appointed then it will not be Eela. The learnedshouldbe contacted for comprehensive explanations. Rule- Ifa man says to his wife, "You are Haraamonme" then ifEela was intended then it is Eela and ifZihaarwas intended then it is Zihaar. Ifnot then it is Talaaq-e-Bain and if three Talaaqs were intended then it is three. If a woman says, "I am Haraam upon you" then this is a Yameen (Qasam) Kafaarah becomes Laazim on the woman if the husband has sexual intercourse with her by force or with her consent. (Durre­ Mukhtaar) Rule- Ifa husband says, "You are a deadanimal,flesh ofa swine, blood or alcohol to me" then if lies are intended by it then they are l ies. If making her Haraam is intended, then it is Eela and ifTalaaq is intended then it is Talaaq. (Jauhara) Rule- Zihaar is when a man compares the body ofhis wife or a part of it that can be understood as the entire body to such a woman who is Haraam always on him or to a part ofher body which is Haraam for him to see, e.g. You are like my mother on me, Your head or neck is like the backofmymother Rule- Being a Muslim, sane and Baaligh are conditions for Zihaar. Therefore i fa Naa Baaligh, insane, unconscious, a delirious or sleeping person made Zihaar then it will not be done. However, if Zihaar was made as a j oke, under intoxication or being forced to and in this condition words of Zihaar were wrongfully said, then it will occur. (Alamghiri) Rule- Ifwords ofZihaar are said by a woman on behalfofthe man then it will not be Zihaar rather it will be absurdity. (Jauhara) Rule- All Mahaarims are taken into account in Zihaar (blood, milk or in law women which areHaraam) . Therefore ifthe man compares the wife 206