Heavenly Jewels

presence. 8. When meeting or l eaving a person, anything that conveys an indirect taunt or disrespect should not be said. 9. If out of a need, a woman has to speak to an Ajnabee man, then her tone of speech should not be so that it creates inappropriate feelings to occur in the heart ofthe man. 1 0. Exaggeration should not be used in speech and you should not chew and speak also. 1 1 . Ifa person praises youwhen speaking to you, deem it to be the grace of Allah � and make His Shukr so that you are saved from pride. However, if something contrary to praise meaning rebuke or anything distasteful is said, then ask forAllah ' s forgiveness and seek His help. 1 2 . Abstaining from unnecessary talk is indicative of dignity but screaming and talking without a credible reason is proof of stupidity. Therefore, speech should be soft and only through need. A Hadeeth states, "An excellence of a Muslim is to l eave out that which he has no need of." AADAAB OF SLEEPING 1 . Before sleeping, pots and vessels of food and drink should be covered. 2. The door should be closed and any source of fire, e.g. lamps, lanterns should be put of. 3 . Bismillah is to be said while closing the door so that Shaitaan cannot open it. 4. Before going into bed, dust it and it is Mustahab to sleep in Tahaarat. You should lie on your side facing Qibla. 5. While lying on the bed, think ofhow you are going to s leep alone in 303